Is Family Constellations real?

Ah, the age-old question: Is Family Constellations real? Well, let’s dive into this intriguing topic together.

The Centre for Systemic Constellations

First off, let’s talk about The Centre for Systemic Constellations, the largest and longest serving training centre for Family & Systemic Constellations work in the United Kingdom, based in Bristol and London.

This organization is at the forefront of Constellation work, offering workshops, training, and support for both practitioners and clients. Led initially by experienced facilitators like Judith Hemming, and now in the safe hands of trainers Christopher Williams, Gaye Donaldson and Sheila McCarthy-Dodd, the Centre is dedicated to exploring the depths of family systems and facilitating healing through Constellation work.

So, what exactly is Family Constellations?

At its core, it’s a powerful therapeutic approach that delves into the hidden dynamics within family systems. Originating from the pioneering work of Bert Hellinger, Constellation work explores how unresolved issues and traumas from past generations can impact our lives today. By representing family members and exploring the connections between them, Constellations shed light on patterns and conflicts that may be holding us back.

Experiential embodied healing

But here’s the thing: Family Constellations aren’t just about talking. They’re about experiencing. In a typical Constellation workshop, participants step into the role of family members, guided by a facilitator. Through this embodied process, deep insights and healing can occur. It’s a profound journey into the heart of our family systems, where hidden truths and unspoken bonds are brought to light.

Does Constellation work actually produce results?

Well, the answer is a resounding yes. See my page of Testimonials here. Countless individuals have reported transformative experiences through Constellation work, from newfound clarity on long-standing issues to profound emotional healing. These changes aren’t just temporary; they have a lasting impact on people’s lives, allowing them to move forward with greater peace and understanding.

But here’s the real bonus: Constellation work isn’t just about individual healing. It’s about healing the collective. When we engage in Constellations, we’re not just addressing our own personal issues; we’re also healing the wounds of our ancestors and contributing to the greater healing of humanity. It’s a ripple effect that extends far beyond ourselves, creating positive change in the world.

So, back to the question at hand: Is Family Constellations real?

Well, let me ask you this: What is reality?

A window into the deeper truths of our existence

In a world where the unseen forces of the past shape our present reality, Constellation work offers a window into the deeper truths of our existence. It’s not about proving its validity through scientific means; it’s about experiencing its profound effects firsthand.

And that’s where the magic lies. In the moments of revelation, the waves of emotion, and the deep sense of connection that Constellation work brings. It’s a journey into the unknown, guided by the wisdom of our ancestors and the healing power of love.

So, whether you’re a skeptic or a believer, I invite you to explore the world of Family Constellations for yourself. Step into the circle, open your heart, and let the magic unfold. Because in the realm of Constellations, anything is possible, and the truth is waiting to be discovered.

The truth may set you free…

If, having read this, you’d like to know the next step in your own healing journey, please contact me on lucy@lucyascham.com and let’s arrange a free 15 minute consultation call to see if we are a good match to work together.

Written by Lucy Ascham, Body & Soul Energy Expert

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